I had promised myself that I would never come here to write about anything outright negative, but alas, I own the place and can do whatever I want. Okay, that did not sound too nice… Allow me to restart. The nature of what I’ve been thinking over the last week has really reflected 2020’s culture shift, and I would be remiss if I did not share these thoughts because surely one of you out there […]

I will say, it takes immense honesty for me to write about this because I’ll be admitting to my own weaknesses when it comes to loving. You might be wondering, “how can love be associated with weakness?” Well, I’ve had to learn the hard way that you need to be extremely strong and vigilant in order to survive the ways people will manipulate your love for them. It happens more often than you think; with […]

If you ask me, there is a large misconception that exists surrounding saying ‘no’ to someone or to something. That misconception branches into a few different thought processes that many of us feel or have felt before: “If I say no, I will hurt their feelings.” “If I say no, they will feel disappointed in me.”“If I say no, it will look shameful.”“If I say no, they will hold it against me.”“If I say no, […]